Together We Make It

Time does not always treat you the same way. Good times do not often seem to last long and bad times feel everlasting.

A bad day at school or work, An argument with family, A fight with a friend, Bad food, A failure or a breakup.

Each of these feel exhausting and make us want to cry out loud. But sobbing about things doesn’t always help.

What do you do then? How do you overcome problems you can do nothing about? How do you feel okay?

Well, Here’s a tip that won’t ever go wrong:

Find people or a person- Yes! We often underestimate the power of a conversation. People together can create wonders and talking really helps. We just need to get it out. Be frank and open on how you feel.

I have been through dull times but have tried and observed how conversations help out. It may be possible that you find it odd to communicate but the person at the other end is just waiting for you to reach out to them.

When you are lucky enough to have people around you, don’t wait and overthink. Just rush to them and talk it out. The power of words- the magic of a conversation is just Magnificent.

We wouldn’t have airplanes if the Wright brothers didn’t have a conversation about it.

The magic of Disney wouldn’t exist if Roy and Walt Disney would not have spoke their ideas out.

There would be no Marvel vs DC if Ron Marz and Peter David kept these thoughts to themselves.

Simran would have left if Raj wouldn’t have asked her to turn around.

We wouldn’t have witnessed the epitome of Love if Romeo hadn’t crashed the party and approached Juliet.

Worldcup 2011 would not have been our victory if the 11 players wouldn’t have discussed.

Harry Potter wouldn’t exist to delight us if J.K Rowling wouldn’t go around telling her stories to more than 12 publishers.

We would be unaware of the issues if Arnab didn’t preach by telling us that “India Wants To Know”.

Indeed, Everyone wants to know. Everyone has to know. Everyone should now.

Go on and talk your heart out. I am pretty sure you will find some healing out there.

 

 

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Alive

I feel the best when I feel free

The beauty of the bare night sky will always amaze me more than crowded dance bars.

The afternoons I can spend curled up in my couch and reading my favourite books are when I feel the most alive.

The feel of fresh air and the smell of flowers interest me more than the best perfume stores.

A little time with my close ones relieves me more than spending my evenings in front of the screen.

Looking at the waves come and go lets me experience the kind of solitude I would want to live for.

Giving myself the time I need and finding my ways to actualise the real meaning of ‘happy’ for my own self means more than anything to me.

Letting my hair fly free, letting myself get lost in the breeze, I feel like the petals of dandelions rising swiftly in the air.

Little things 🌸

The past few days have been a little difficult for me. At times, all of us may face situations wherein we feel life’s a complete mess. Everything around seems dull and nothing helps to get out of that feeling.
When you feel you haven’t figured out the uncertainties and have no idea of the path ahead.
But gradually, I realised that it is nothing so much severe and all it takes for us is a little hope and a little time.
Find ways to engage yourselves and stay positive.
To my rescue, I talked with family, friends and loved ones and those conversations are a sure shot for making me feel okay.
I tried to binge on some interesting shows, went for an outing with my cousin and suddenly felt happy.
There are tough times but you will always get through them.
At the end, it’s the simple things in life that matter.
At the end, I continue to stick to what I love the most- I write!

The loss

There is no greater loss than the loss of a human.
You love a person, or hate them. You are fond of them or irritated by them. All of it matters only till you are together. Once the person is gone, you miss even the stupidest things about them. And the tragedy is, they don’t seem stupid anymore. The worst thing you can do a to a person is taking them for granted. The worst mistake you can do in your life is not knowing someone’s worth. The love, hatred, joy, friendship, relationship or the bond. All of it exists only till the person does. The person’s talks turn into echoes that fill your ears, the blur sight you try to visualise turns into your tears, their habits turn into your memories, their things and belongings remind you of incidents with them and their laugh turns into something you will forever miss. It is strange how suddenly one day, the person is gone forever and all you had to tell them, all you had to do with them or all the time you had to spend with them becomes just a wish and how you feel you had done that earlier. All of it turns into regrets now
So let go off all the chaos and value each person from your heart.
Because no matter, what bad a person does, it is never enough to justify their lifetime absence.

PS: my grandparents will always hold the warmest corner of my heart.